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61 year old, Loves Bears Tall/Leather

I'm an honest, loyal, monogamist person that wants to find the right person for his Life Partner. It takes time but I want to find that person who becomes my best friend and then blossoms into a partnership/relationship. I am really turned on by Tall men 6.2 or bigger, beards and/or hairy chests a plus. Well endowed would be a dream come true, but it's not a deal breaker, average is just fine too. I don't have a preference Top or Bottom is fine with me. My partner, family and friends are all important to me. Currently I've moved into my mothers so I can help her out. My father passed away over 8 years ago and she has been going down hill. She's 83 and tries to do too much. In the past 3 years she has fallen and has broken bones, had a heart attack, depression and she still keeps moving. She just had surgery on her left shoulder and she can't do too much so I drive her everywhere. I do all the shopping, I clean the house and do the laundry, help her dress, all that stuff.

I've played the games, did the bar thing and got nowhere, I've even jumped into relationships that only hurt me and I avoid that at all cost. I'll be here a little while longer and I can take it easy and I'll find the one for me. I have a great sense of humor, I love music, movies, art. I use to work in computer support and teaching hardware and software support. I traveled internationally for over 8 years with most of my trips lasting from 12 to 14 weeks long, then I'd come home for 3 to 4 weeks and then leave home again. Trying to maintain a relationship with that type of schedule was impossible, so I just gave up on that side of my life. You could say that I'm semi retired now and I work on projects from my home. I have a degree in Design and 3D Animation and so that keeps me pretty busy just staying knowledgeable about the software upgrades for the programs that I use to stay competitive. I'm working on learning 3 different software upgrades now. I checked the languages I speak but I have to be honest with you, my German and French is pretty rusty.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferVersatile
DemeanorMasculine
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageScottish
BuildA few extra pounds
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionDiabetes
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleHead designer and the whole ball of wax

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI'm looking for a man that can focus on a strong relationship, be monogamist, honest, believe in a good relationship with family and friends. Someone that can take an interest in what I do and be honest about my work if it's good or needs some changes. Someone that knows how to love another man and can have fun in bed, laugh, talk and joke around while having sex. I try to provide a euphoric feeling for my partner and I hope he can provide that feeling to me.
Our first dateOpen with a dinner, a buger or pizza or just coffee or something to drink. Talk and get to know each other. See if there is a spark between each other be it from looks or personality. Find things of interest between you. If everything goes go we might even go to his place and talk more about each other, maybe cuddle and hold hands. You never know where things lead to. If all is good then plan a second date.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:None of the above
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Fisting, Golden Showers. I do like Leather and I've gotten into S&M but I really have to know the person and we have to have complete trust between each other.